Horses and their honesty, which sometimes translates to their inability to be polite, is energetically one of the things that differentiates horses from people and also from dogs. With horses, mostly what you see is what you get. But it takes time to know what you are looking at.
I have ridden many miles of trail in my life. Years ago, I had the thought that the trail really is a metaphor for life, because we choose the trail according to the same basic criteria as we choose to embark on activities in life, except that no one is paying us to do it, usually!
I recently became aware of how the Liberty work I teach really expose to us not only our greatest strengths and weaknesses, but also what parts of the work we are drawn to.
From the standpoint of a bodyworker, when the horse has “had enough” is pretty obvious. But even so, students will continue to press on an area and worry over it even when the horse has moved away. Why don’t they see it? Feel it?
Bottom line: you want your horse to like the trainer. When the horse doesn’t like the trainer you’ve got a real problem, because clearly something is going on that shouldn’t be. Too much pressure is being applied, most likely.
One of the hardest things to do is to undo what we have known forever. What we have invested in as “the truth.” When you study with a particular trainer, you run the risk of becoming tunnel visioned, only seeing the way of that trainer, no one else, or no one else who might disagree with that trainer.
Since the world of horsemanship is somewhat dominated by “Natural Horsemanship” mentality, that is the acceptable way of doing things for many. It’s relatively easy to learn with all its steps – do this, then this, then this. For those people who are not intuitively driven, this is perfect. They can just follow a bunch of steps and come out the other end, hopefully intact.
The horsemen from whom this cookie cutter approach derived did not use a cookie cutter approach, and were
intuitive horsemen. They brought horsemanship out of the rough-and-ready stage into considering the horse, which was a huge step for mankind. This is not to be belittled in any way. Some of what I learned in this camp I still use today, but I am viewing it through a different lens, so I am doing things differently.
Horses do not operate in a series of steps. Where some of these step-by-step techniques may work well in a very wooden way, they are also being imposed on a horse rather than allowing the horse to make decisions for herself within the process. We want the horse to think about it, then see how it fits. Just like we would not enjoy having people impose their will on us, neither does the horse.
Certainly this step-driven form of horsemanship is very popular and horses do get trained that way. But look at their eyes. Look at how they feel being run around in a round pen, how they are so thankful to be let into the center of the pen. There is no escape, this is not liberty training, this is the predator pushing the prey animal out to the perimeter of a cage until he gets the desired result. The recognition of your leadership can be achieved in a more humane way, with more connection between the two of you, and not this “man over beast” mentality. Although 90% of horses can be trained successfully that way (and we’re not sure how ‘successful’ that training is), there is another 10% who are looking for something more, a deeper connection. Actually, the more I experience true liberty work, the more I believe the percentage of horses seeking this from humans is greater than these percentages show.
We have a greater population of unwanted horses than ever before, leading to more horses ending up in shelters and terrible circumstances. Those that find loving homes afterwards require a lot of special care, among these things are emotional support which the Liberty Foundations can give. There are also many more high performance horses who are being pushed beyond their mental capacity, due to high expectations of winning great sums of money and other ego-driven desires. These horses often have mental breakdowns and lose their interest in performing because it is fraught with expectation and cruelty in their minds. These are horses who will flourish with this gentle approach.
There are many other types of horses that will benefit, in fact, all horses will benefit greatly. I just listed some of the situations that create tension and stress for horses, where they cannot respond to the traditional types of training in many cases. Release to pressure is the last thing they need.
I think it’s also hard to undo this type of training because it comes with popular icons and popular sayings that people enjoy repeating. It also is difficult to undo because you have invested in the jacket, the saddle, the bridle, the t-shirt, whatever. You have bought the whole ball of wax: hook, line and sinker. The trouble with this is that every human makes mistakes. Every human who wants to find a better way does so their own way, but it isn’t necessarily your way. You might do better to explore who you are and what it is you want in a training perspective, what fits you, rather than taking the party line.
Personally I don’t want to study things that lock me into a particular perspective because my perspective needs to be free to grow and change with my knowledge. What I learned in teaching the last clinic is enormously helpful to my overall perspective: knowledge about what horses want, how to give them that, how people’s energy stands in their own way. The clinic is conducted by what the horse needs next, not by a series of steps. Of course, I had some knowledge before I went into it, but when I was there and feeling it all, new awareness filled me that I’m so grateful for.
We are not born knowing everything. When we cling to the knowledge we have invested in as if some one were trying to wrench life itself away from us, then we will have trouble learning new things. The new things I’m learning today are quite removed from what I learned three years ago, and I’m so grateful for that. I’m not doing things quite “the way I was taught.”
The best way to learn new things is to come to new studies with a “beginners’ mind.” Then everything is fresh and there is less desire to compare it to the old way. Perhaps you would have had a faster response from a horse if the horse was being trained in the round pen. You could go out and “break” ten colts a day, like in the old days. But is that necessary today? I don’t think that kind of economy exists in today’s world. Yet we continue to train horses this way.
There is always something good to be taken from all we learn. It’s not necessary to throw the baby out with the bathwater, but instead be a discerning consumer of information. What does your horse look like when being round penned? Do you care or do you just want him to do what you want? Do you feel your relationship with that horse has grown stronger, or has he just succumbed to your wishes? Acquiescence isn’t the beginning of a relationship.
A lot of what we think is success with horses revolves around our own egos. In contrast, what we are doing with liberty training is working with the horse right where she is. We are not expecting anything. We are not involving our egos. The shift to this kind of thinking, or being, can be very difficult for some people. People are goal oriented. Not going in with some agenda can be upsetting for some. But the lack of agenda can really pay off in the long run, when the horse has had an opportunity to be known and paid attention to in a real way.
This new way of thinking or being is a paradigm shift. We are overcoming a lifetime of horsemanship, and in so doing, picking out the parts that resonate and still work, and being ready to discard what doesn’t fit. We are also artfully blending the whole of our knowledge into a fabric that will ultimately serve the horse and allow a door to relationship, which is where all of our unity with horses begins.
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(copyright: Susan Smith, OrthoHorse)
Services: Bodywork (Ortho-Bionomy for people, Equine Ortho-Bionomy): private sessions, tutorials, phone consultations, distance healing communication and gift certificates
Liberty Coaching: clinics, mini-clinics, workshops, private and semi-private sessions, tutorials, consultations: by appointment: 505.501.2478 or emailing susansmith@orthohorse.info Spring Lessons – semi-private, private and small group sessions. Scheduling now. Contact me for details.
If you want to host a clinic in your area, contact me to make arrangements. Prices will vary according to location and travel. susansmith@orthohorse.info 505-501-2478
I conducted a free Liberty Coaching Call on March 12. If you did not have a chance to listen, here is the link: http://www.susith.com/orthohorse/freehorseatlibcall.mp3
On the schedule for 2014:
June 14th – Trail Riding Clinic
Where: Headquarters Well, Caja Del Rio, Santa Fe
Time: 9 a.m.-noon
Limited to 4 riders.
Cost: $75
Do you have questions or difficulties riding on the trail with your horse? What would you like to know to make your ride more enjoyable?
Trail riding is not just about “controlling” your horse, it is about establishing a “centaur relationship” that can carry you through all kinds of challenges.
Come learn from a seasoned endurance rider the following tips:
When we ask a horse to listen to us when we’re on a trail with other horses, we’re asking her to engage with us instead of with the other horses and the distractions that can occur on the trail. In this way, trail riding exposes what is not working in the arena and it exposes where your relationship with your horse needs strengthening. Find out some similarities between liberty training and trail riding.
In this clinic we will talk first about preparation and then work on some ways to manage situations on the trail, while in the saddle. We will take a short trail ride.
Bring:
• Snacks
• Water for you and your horse
• Hay if you want it
• Helmet
• Tack (saddle & some sort of horse headgear required)
This clinic is full but there is a waiting list. Please get on it! Contact me for enrollment & liability forms and Payment information. PayPal & checks accepted.
Combining cumulative knowledge from over 18 years of endurance riding, Liberty Horsemanship and Ortho-Bionomy bodywork practice, Susan Smith brings a unique perspective to getting a horse and rider ready for the trail – in mind, body and spirit.
Liberty Foundation work is destined to deepen your trail experience.
Contact Susan Smith@ susansmith@orthohorse.info or 505-501-2478.
September 27-28 – Spirit Horse Ranch Two-Day Liberty Foundations Clinic, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma – Engaging the Hearts and Minds of Horses. Susan Smith and Ruella Yates, co-teaching. Contact me or Ruella at 405-771-4274 (ruella@libertyfoundations.com)
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In the beginning there was the herd. The herd traveled as one; each member had its own thoughts but they thought as one being when deciding where to move, when to move, where to eat, to drink, what to do if a predator approached. Their days flowed together and were designed around the quest for food, shelter and space. They shared a language that consisted of body language, sounds, just thinking a desire.
Many people ask me how often I do liberty work with my horses, and do I do it before I ride, or after?
This comment makes me laugh but it is also serious business! Horses can drive us crazy because of our lack of understanding or their lack of understanding of our lack of understanding.
There are days like this, when our horse is not well connected with us and is literally, driving us crazy. Or steps on our feet and maybe we were in the wrong place at the wrong time, but it doesn’t feel any better, no matter what the reason. Or jumps back suddenly, startling at something we aren’t aware of. It is times like these I wish I had eyes in the back of my head!
I was thinking about this the other day, when my gelding decided not to listen and pulled to the end of the lead rope to go snag some grass, as I was taking him out of his corral. I was in a very human mood, needing to get somewhere, with not the time to school him really, but I took him back through the gate and had him do it nicely, then stand and wait for me to secure the gate as he normally does.
Sometimes the reason people bring horses to me for liberty work is because the horse is driving them crazy and they don’t know how to communicate with the horse. In the case of my horse, I thought maybe I should spend more time with him, sit with him, do a few exercises that he enjoys. I also had to take into account my impatience, urgency, and irritation, and shift my energy so that I wasn’t in that emotional space.
Often the Liberty Foundations expose what the horse is lacking. He is not listening, then we can sit with him and walk him down. I often experiment with the different possibilities in order to see what works for the horse or what she may offer me. I also work with my own energy and how I might need to change it to make things work better for both of us. This work is not step-by-step, it is dynamic and fluid, and once we know the foundations we can move among them and add our own creative ideas as the lesson progresses.
Recently I did a lesson with a young woman who had a very powerful, full-of-himself horse. He also had difficulty in his relationships with other horses, always bullying and bossing them around. I think he was driving her a little crazy, even though she loved him a lot.
The way he reached out to greet her when we did the greeting exercise was as though she was beneath him. He had this air of visiting royalty, deigning to shake hands with a peon. He did not do that with me; he extended his neck in curiosity but not with that same haughty attitude. I thought that was where her problems with him lie. He felt he was in charge of every situation, even though she is an excellent horsewoman.
Our job was to get him to recognize her as the leader and enjoy that relationship. She did not have to take his leadership away from him, only make sure he recognized her and show him some interesting options. We accomplished this in the lesson by also working with her approach, and she went home to try it out in the context of the herd. Her horse began to treat the other horses with more respect also.
With this horse, I recommended that she keep up the work, because he may backslide to his old ways if not reminded of his place in the “universal herd,” meaning including the humans. This type of horse has a long history of this behavior and way of relating to others, so it takes time for the new neural pathways to be activated on a regular basis without some reminders. My very strong-willed horses need to be reminded and I can usually tell when it’s time to do certain foundations with them.
Horses don’t have to be this type to benefit from this work – horses who have suffered abuse may use the work as a safety net in their lives, that helps shape their lives and give it reasonable boundaries. In fact, I don’t know any horses that don’t benefit from this work if done correctly. For some abused horses, the fact that someone is not asking them to do anything difficult can be immensely comforting. Performance horses also enjoy the relief of this language that feels closer to home than the world they inhabit at shows, races or other events.
So, if you have a horse who a) doesn’t get along in his herd, b) won’t move, c) is shy or frightened, d) is too pushy or aggressive, e) presents other problems — you may need to introduce Liberty Foundations into his curriculum. See the announcement below to find out about upcoming clinics in your area, or to travel to. Private instruction is also available. The more you can see the work done with other horses, the more it will deepen in you and you will be able to determine which of the tools to use in work with your own horses.
Here is a video I made with my horse Patches, who is beyond the basics in his liberty training but as you can see, still needs reminders of leadership. If you want to do this with your horse, it does require some basic Liberty Foundation Training:
[youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W6Kk95bwlPk&w=560&h=315]****
(copyright: Susan Smith, OrthoHorse)
Services: Bodywork (Ortho-Bionomy for people, Equine Ortho-Bionomy): private sessions, tutorials, phone consultations, distance healing communication and gift certificates
Liberty Coaching: clinics, mini-clinics, workshops, private and semi-private sessions, tutorials, consultations: by appointment: 505.501.2478 or emailing susansmith@orthohorse.info Spring Lessons – semi-private, private and small group sessions. Scheduling now. Contact me for details.
If you want to host a clinic in your area, contact me to make arrangements. Prices will vary according to location and travel. susansmith@orthohorse.info 505-501-2478
I conducted a free Liberty Coaching Call on March 12. If you did not have a chance to listen, here is the link: http://www.susith.com/orthohorse/freehorseatlibcall.mp3
September 26 – Spirit Horse Ranch – Private Liberty Lessons & Ortho-Bionomy for both people and horses. OrthoHorse Tutorial 9-12. Contact me 505-501-2478 or Ruella at 405-771-4274 (ruella@libertyfoundations.com)
September 27-28 – Spirit Horse Ranch Two-Day Liberty Foundations Clinic, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma – Engaging the Hearts and Minds of Horses. Susan Smith and Ruella Yates, co-teaching. Contact me 505-501-2478 or Ruella at 405-771-4274 (ruella@libertyfoundations.com)
October 7: Liberty Foundations Online classes – beginning and advanced – offered by Susan Smith (October 7-beginning), four calls, and Ruella Yates (October 7-advanced), Horses at Liberty Online and Spirit Horse Ranch Online. PayPal button available on my website homepage and on the Events page. Contact me for other payment arrangements.
December 13-14 – Horses at Liberty Weekend Clinic, DeLand, Florida – Bring your Horse into Deep Working Connection with Liberty Horsemanship. Instructor: Susan Smith. Contact Anne Daimler tdaimler@cfl.rr.com (386-822-4564) Susan at susansmith@orthohorse.info (505-983-2128 or cell 505-501-2478) 9:00-4:30 p.m.
Susan is a member of the Independent Liberty Trainers Network. libertytrainersnetwork.com/
This past weekend I presented a clinic in beautiful green, sunny Florida. The weather cooperated fully and we had a really fine group of people and horses in attendance.
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